Getting Ready for the West Coast

We are starting an adventure to the West Coast. We have a number of goals for this trip:

  • Attend the Tulip Festival in Skagit Valley. Although tulip farming was happening when I lived in the area as a lad, there was no festival. When we had the summer place on Samish Island, we were never there in the early spring when tulips were in bloom. This trip will allow us to experience one of the highlights of the area I was born. Acres of tulips in bloom will certainly be spectacular.
  • We’ll visit my aunt Georgia, the last living relative from my Mother’s generation. Her daughter, cousin Nancy, is putting together a family gathering. Nancy’s husband is editing a copy of the 8 mm family films that my father took and I had digitized.
  • I will spend some time sprucing up my parents gravesite. This may be my last opportunity to do so.
  • We plan to visit a number of friends in the area as well. People we became close to when we had the Samish Island place.
  • After Skagit Valley, we will travel to Vancouver BC and take the Rocky Mountaineer over the Canadian Rockies to Banff, Lake Louise then Calgary.

The challenge will be to get to the Savannah Airport in time for our 5:30 am flight.

Getting Out of the House

I have been neglecting my posts this year. It is April and I haven’t posted since the oyster roast in February. I guess there hasn’t been much happening.

Last week Tina and I went on a ” Drive and Dine” with my car club. We went to the Pat Conroy Literary Center in Beaufort.

We had Tina shrunk so she could stand on a pile of books

At lunch some of the other car club guys talked about the Air Show at the Marine Corps Air Station in Beaufort the following weekend. So, this morning Tina and I are off to buy some ear protection and see the Navy Blue Angels flying team. But this time we will not be driving the Jeep.

Getting to MCAS Beaufort (Merritt Field) was an ordeal.

We first stopped at Walmart to buy ear protection as recommended. In the sporting goods area every piece of ear protection was sold. At checkout I noticed that a guy had a container of disposable ear plugs. He got them in the pharmacy section, I lucked out as there was another container. Now I am set for life ear protection wise.

It took us over two hours to make the 20 minute trip to the MÇAS. We then had a mile and a half walk to the entrance to the air show. It was worth the inconvenience. The Blue Angels put on quite a show. And there were a number of other air and parachute demonstrations. Needless to say, there was quite a crowd.

Over 100,000 people attended the Air Show

Oyster Roast

Evidently an oyster roast is a traditional event in the southeast. We were invited to our first Oyster Roast by our nextdoor friends. It took place at our friend’s family estate south of Savannah. It is now a private event space owned by what was the family enterprise and is now an international corporation.

We started with a tour of the home.

Grove Point

We started with roasting the oysters.

This is the traditional way of roasting oysters

Then eating the oysters

I overindulged here

Little did I know that there was a full barbeque brisket dinner to follow

I shouldn’t eat again for a week

Beautiful event in a beautiful place

The site of the venue was where the movie “Cape Fear” was filmed in the 1960’s. We watched the movie that evening.

St Augustine at Christmas

We made a short trip to Jacksonville and St Augustine. Jacksonville for shopping and St Augustine to see the Christmas lights. I was not expecting much but they turned out to be quite a sight to see.

Ran into many tourists from all over the US and Latin America. After dark the restaurants were really crowded.

Also saw a few locals enjoying the lights

Thanksgiving 2024

We have the whole gang here with us this year. And, we are looking forward to a great time.

This is the day before Thanksgiving. The guys went off for an adventure: we went to a local gun range. It was the first time shooting pistol for son-in-law James, years ago for son Jim and me. Makes me want to get back into firearms.

We didn’t do bad for novices

Thanksgiving morning all of us participated in the local 5K run. Son-in-law James came in first and won a pumpkin pie. We will add it to the desserts for this evening. There are never enough pumpkin pies.

Tina and Emma set a beautiful table for the Thanksgiving meal.

And the meal was great

Back in West Hartford for a Party

Our daughter had a somewhat unconventional wedding experience. Married to a British fellow in Vietnam; she did not have a conventional wedding while in Vietnam. Being in the middle of the COVID-19 pandemic also inhibited local celebrations. Later we improvised a celebration by having a party for them in England about a year later. Note that I previously put together a blog for that event. The English party was a great success and we were able to meet his side of the family. A great group of people. Our intent at that time was to follow up with a similar event in New England. That intent was the genesis of our party in West Hartford.

Tina and Emma did the lion’s share of planning and preparation for the party. A great deal of added help came from Tina’s cousins and some of our one time neighbors in West Hartford who also helped with the preparation. What turned out was a truly fun event for us, our Connecticut friends, Tina’s relatives and Emma’s friends. Many traveled a long way to come to the event.

The event started Friday with a pizza party for all who could make it at a local fun pizza place named Sparrow.

The actual event took place at a local golf club. The weather was delightful as we were in the height of the spectacular Autumn leaves.

The event was truly joyful and, I believe, everyone had a good time. It was a fun and meaningful recognition of our daughter’s marriage. The event exceeded all of our expectations.

A lot of the family in attendance
Tina’s brother and his family
West Hartford neighbors
Some of Emma’s friends

We also enlisted Emma’s youth pastor (Now Senior pastor) to do a blessing of the marriage.

In the English tradition, James made a speech about their relationship from his perspective. It was very moving to all.

A couple good pics

I will be writing a blog about our event in West Hartford after I get access to the photos. But, in the meantime I wanted to post some photos I took this morning.

We are spending the night at the Groton Inn in Mass. This morning there was a scene I wanted to share of the meadows behind the Inn.

Tina would say this is true New England in the Autumn

Getting Ready for a Party

Well, we made it to West Hartford. The reason we are here is to have a celebratory party for our daughter, Emma’s, wedding. True, she was married in Vietnam a couple years ago. And, true, we had a party for her and her husband in his native country, England. But we had not had heretofore, a celebration for our friends and family in New England. So, we are here to do that.

The last few weeks have been a riot of activity with the long distant preparations. I have to admit that these preps were pretty much on the shoulders of Tina and Emma. From my perspective, that of trying to stay out of the way and not interject my opinions, it is going to be a truly fun evening. I should say two evenings and several days. Tonight we are going to host a gathering at a pizza place in West Hartford, Sparrow, for those that are coming into town as well as locals that have helped Tina and Emma with preps.

The venue of the party,the Rockledge Golf Club, has been visited a couple times, Sparrow was visited and the pizza approved, dessert has been ordered from the go to Italian bakery, koufeta prepared, party stuff bought and about a thousand other things completed or started.

We went early to Sparrow, the pizza venue, a bit early. It was good that we were early because parking in West Hartford on a Friday evening is packed. Guests started arriving right on time at 5:30. The Sparrow staff was great, they had us set up in a prime location and the pizza was outstanding. As well the salads and the French fries we got for the kids (although I and a number of other adults sampled them heavily) were great with large portions. Jim selected the wine and, as usual, did a great job. Family mixed well with local friends.

Pizza was great I think all, especially the kids and I, had a good time

A Day in New Haven

Today was spent with Jim in New Haven. It was pretty much a kick back day as yesterday was such a full day. Since Jim lives here and knows the town, it was fun having him show us around and pick the prime spots.

We started at a Greek diner for breakfast. Tina was able to recall some Greek and talk with the owner and his wife. It turns out that they are from the Pelepanese but the other side of the peninsula from Tina’s roots.

After doing some chores we all went to the Yale Art Museum. It is a true gem. Many remarkable and recognizable works of art. To mention just a few: Monet, van Gogh, Degas, Matisse, Turner, O’Keefe the list goes on and on. And, everything is very accessible. If one wanted to get thrown out, you could touch the artwork. And, it is free.





Early dinner at a nifty Irish Pub while watching football and an early to bed.